I have a strap on that I have used on many women (and a few men). When I wear my strap on I feel empowered. How could I not? There is power in having a penis. Yes, you guys are probably saying what about 'pussy power'? Women use that to get their way, but a hard dick says muscle and strength. Hmm, maybe that is why I love sucking them! My bOYtOY requested that I wear my strap on him. He liked the thought of me dominating him. I even made him suck it (and he gagged, wimp).