Here's something away from my norm. I'm not a submissive person...as you can tell, I like to be in charge of my bOYtOYs and our fuck-a-rama. The doesn't mean I'm a domme or mistress. I just like to remain in control ;-) My latest bOYtOY asked, politely, lol, if he could experiment just a tad. Ok, so bring out the whips & chains I jokingly said. Not quite the BDSM situation, but blindfolded and restrained was definitely a new sexual experience.